Arcana of the Twin Serpents ✦ 90 minutes
For two people relearning each other.
Long partnerships rarely lose desire; they lose the habit of asking for it. We rebuild the conversation between you both, with each of you heard separately and then together.
How the work goes
Apart
Each of you speaks privately first. What you cannot say in front of each other is usually the most useful material.
Together
We bring the two accounts into one room and find the overlap, which is almost always larger than either of you expected.
Agree
You leave with an agreement you both authored: what you will try, what is off the table, and how either of you can pause it.
What the session includes
- Private time for each partner plus a joint session
- A written agreement in your own words
- A review session to adjust what you agreed
Clear limits,
then real depth.
Both partners must attend willingly. This is not mediation, and it is not a substitute for couples therapy where that is needed.