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About me

The woman
behind the work.

I am a consultant and intimacy coach working privately with adults on desire, language, boundaries and power.

Portrait of the Dark Heart Domina practitioner in candlelight

Most people arrive able to explain their work, their family and their ambitions in precise detail — and then fall silent the moment the subject turns to what they actually want. That silence is the whole of my practice. I am not here to shock you out of it or to hand you a script somebody else wrote.

My approach is unhurried and structured. We name the thing plainly, trace where the shame around it came from, and build language you can use outside this room. Where a dynamic needs designing, we write it down: roles, limits, signals, aftercare. Intensity stays safe when it is deliberate.

I work with individuals and with couples, in person and at a distance, always privately. This is coaching and consulting conversation — not therapy, and never physical sexual services. When something else is the right answer for you, I will say so.

What I hold to

  • Your pace decides the depth, every single time.
  • Nothing said in this room becomes material anywhere else.
  • A clear yes, or we do not proceed at all.
  • Honesty over comfort, delivered kindly.
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